What Dating a Dominatrix / Submissive Switch Taught me

Theories are the points of origination for a number of things in the world of human beings. The aspect of sexuality and fetishes has also been one of them. The reason why we would be saying so is that everything has its point of inception and is actually triggered by an individual or a set of events in a progressive manner.
Most of the events in the world have been backed by theories and some of them have triggered the international media to rather unconventional limits. For instance, the moon landing has been causing a lot of controversy with a set of pessimists bringing forth their very own theory about how it was faked. Nonetheless one can say that the ends of human sexuality have also been subjected to such theories, especially with regards to its point of inception.
Where does the manifestation of sexual fantasies take place?
The inception of sexual fantasies has a whole lot to do with past experiences. Nobody can randomly grow a fetish or a certain preference for something that they have not been subjected to, especially if it has the induction of pain and discomfort.
Research suggests that there may be a past experience associated with people that are portraying such behaviours related to BDSM. For instance the person may have been spanked as a kid that may have triggered this fetish for masochism. Similarly the person may have been attracted to the human feet or any other specific unconventional body part, thus triggering a liking towards it.
Now the person may or may not have been spanked intentionally in their childhood, but either way that experience has been etched in the mind of the person which later manifested in the form of a sexual preference. The spanking would have triggered a sensation of pleasure in the mind of the person and this has been the major reason behind the manifestation of the sexual fantasy in the person.
Is this behavioural characteristic normal?
The human behaviour is not bound to any form of limits. In reality we are social beings that learn or derive from several experiences. A set of events that may have taken place a very long time ago can be a major cause for the inception of behaviour.
When it comes to the sexual fantasies of a person, there are a large number of factors which may initiate the set of preferences. We are naturally influenced with respect to our sexual behaviour through media like television daily soaps, movies and porn videos as well. Even these could be the trigger for any form of behaviour that we may want to practise in our sexual advances.
The best and the most ideal explanation would be with regards to the fact that such an ordeal can be associated with the human mind and its advancement in the modern age. The human mind is a complex machine which is capable of deriving a lot of information and storing it over a long period of time. It is a computer which processes information in a dormant manner until the right time has come.

People have been subjecting themselves to this unconventional kind of sexual relationships where they are intended on trying something new and different. Over the years, the regularity of BDSM in the lives of the people can be noted to have exponentially gone up.
This human is owing to the inquisitive mindset of the human nature. We are always reluctant on trying out something different which pushes us to the edge of imagination. In this case we have been subjected to the same circumstances and with the availability of media components, out urge to try out such new stuff tend to manifest it even better.
Are there people actually into S &M?

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Sadism and Masochism are the lesser known components of this practise and there has been a lot of debate off lately with regards to this aspect as well. Typically a sadist is a person that enjoys hurting other people physically and mentally. In the acts of sexual encounters such people tend to be the dominant ones and hurt their partner to extract sexual pleasure.
On the other hand the masochist is the person that likes to be put through pain and hurt by their partner. This can be envisioned as an extreme form of submission which stretches beyond any known form of convention.
Research suggests that there are increasing numbers of couples in the modern era that are into S&M. These couples have a completely variant form of sexual fantasy which drives them to application of such measures. However on a larger scale this isn’t an unusual behaviour. Transcending personal pleasure into sexual encounters has always been persistent and people that extract pleasure through pain and physical contact aren’t new to such practises.
This proposition in general is far beyond conventional sex. It is also a state of mind which is not inherited by a lot of people. This is a pure example of the fact that exploring one’s sexuality over a long period of time in an intense manner can certainly unveil some astonishing facts. The inception of such an aspect might have been through something rather strange, for instance an event that may have triggered this rather unusual fetish for pain.
Is this form of sexual behaviour normal?
From a conventional point of view, this kind of behaviour might sound reasonably debatable, but in reality we have to accept the fact that we have been sadists or masochists at some point or the other. Every human is ought to go through this phase where we may have hurt someone or let someone hurt us.
There are certain set of people that may have actually gained pleasure from such an experience owing to which the inception of such a fetish took place. Determining whether this kind of a behaviour is normal or not would be a controversy as any sort of behavioural instinct in human tends to be learned and a result of evolution. Especially when it comes to sexuality, the limits of conventional human imagination are really stretched.  
 

One of the most amazing aspects of BDSM tends to be the fact that acts performed under this genre need not be physical all of the time. It is quite commonly observed that people like indulging in non-penetrative sex and also like to perform them verbally. The best thing about BDSM with retrospect to the aforementioned fact is that it can be enacted upon under any circumstances.
Having sexual encounters verbally is quite common. It can be through chat messages, phone calls and anything else. The act of dominance and submission has been quite common in this field as well since there have been coupled indulging in this remote from of sexual encounter quite frequently.
Does the experience satisfy individuals sensually?
The experience of indulging in Submission and dominance can be quite intimidating without the quotient of physical pleasure as well. When such an act is performed virtually over the phone or any other media, the sensual stimulation does take place in the brain.
Arousing someone sexually has a major connection to the hormones secreted in the body. The aspect of foreplay helps to make the sexual encounter pleasing and a satisfying one. This foreplay can be virtual or physical as well. The encounter at times transcends to such a phase that the individuals associated with the act are intensely aroused owing to which they may also experience sexual orgy.
When the brain centre controlling the pleasure quotient of a person sexually tends to be triggered beyond conventional limits, the most intense form of pleasure is felt. The act of sexually arousing a person over virtual media is thus a possible way of influencing and sexually satisfying a person.
Dominance and Submission in a sensual relationship
In a relationship involving dominance and submission, the person that generally tends to take a lead on the situation is termed as the dominant partner. On the other hand the counterparts are submissive. There is no gender bar in this kind of a regime as both males and females can be dominant and submissive at the same time.
Often couples are seen to switch their roles midway during the sexual encounter. This is quite common among couples practising BDSM and such a role switch can be enacted a multiple number of times during a sexual encounter.
The switch in the role is generally mutual and negotiable. In such a case the partners are seen performing the act a number of times to attain the most off their sexual encounter. It is also reported that such an act helps to preserve the intensity of the sexual act. It makes things quite sensual and arouses individuals in a seemingly prolific manner.
The act of BDSM can thus be seen to have a psychological resemblance as it can be performed by all means. It is an integral component of “sexual revival” in the modern world where people are intrigued on trying out something new and intriguing. It is a step towards a sexual modernization that would essentially allow partners to break the barriers of “physicality only” in sexual acts.   

Dominance and Submission from an integral point of view
The concept of dominance and submission has been widely common in erotic encounters. People have been indulging themselves within this act from a very long period of time since the inception of the phase when acts of sexuality began to be explored.
With the ascendancy of time, people have been taking their fascinations on to a complete different level and it is quite understandable from the fact that we are always intrigued on trying out something completely different. Dominance and submission is basically a subpart of BDSM, an erotic manoeuvre which enables the partners to indulge in a sensuous role-play.
People have different set of fantasies
When interacting with the partner, many couples confess to the fact that they like to be dominated by their better half. It is completely irrespective of the gender and the partners associated tend to do it from their own will.

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Dominance and Submission predominantly is a behaviour which is surfaced from internal sensual desires. It is a characteristic feature of the person’s very own mindset with respect to their sexual desires and fantasies.
Most people often tend to confuse it between being behaviour, custom or even a ritual. Predominantly it is a behavioural characteristic. It can be totally different among people originating from different backgrounds. It is also persistent among all types of sexual encounters, be it long term relationships or even the casual ones. The mind in such individuals tentatively likes to be under the leadership (in this aspect “dominance”) as they feel aroused with such a manoeuvre.
From a statistical point of view, people mostly associate submission with the aspects of women; however the truth lies in the fact that this behaviour is also present and quite profound among males. The mindset of the individual and their character from a sexual point of view tends to make them either dominant or submissive.
The person that takes the form of the dominant partner is generously more profound in bed during sexual encounters and erotic episodes. In easier language they are the ones that take the initiative of the sensual regime. Their partners on the other hand are the ones that enjoy sexual encounters when being ordered. The submissive behaviour in this aspect is retrospective to the fact that sensually they feel aroused when being controlled by their partner.
As a subset of BDSM
As a subset of BDSM, as it is commonly referred to; ‘D’ and ‘S’ denotes Dominance and Submission. Sexual encounters in this phase are completely different from the conventional ones. The ‘wild’ quotient in this kind of a relationship is more prolific and well defined.
Conventional sex basically has the partners engaging in sexual activities in an equal manner. Both the partners take control of the act and are neither submissive nor dominant. It is more of an act which includes sensuousness rather than being a fascination or an erotica as well. BDSM can thus be defined as the set of behaviours which influences the sexual act in an intimidating as par the nature of the participants.